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the victim mindset.

  • Dec 21, 2015
  • 2 min read

There is nothing that upsets me more, than when I stumble across this mindset. There comes a point in our lives where we fall, and we become self-pitying banshees. Sometimes life is not fair, and we have all succumbed to this way of thinking at some point in our life. That is okay, but make this as short-lived as possible. If at all.

The longer we spend time in the victim mindset, the longer we will be held back and continue down a self-destructive path. We could "why me" until the day we leave this Earth. That would be the easy route to take. We all have the capability to become better people as a result of life's storms. We all have the ability to come out of a not-so-awesome happening, put our big girl and boy pants on, and learn something valuable from that experience. Use that experience to thrive. Find your faith in tomorrow and make tomorrow better.

We will forever stumble upon various situations and people, and if you can gain a worldly perspective on the "why" this or that happened, then I promise your soul will be more at peace. It is not always easy, but it is critical for our growth. We will never be able to control every outcome, and coming to terms to that is important.

Do something today that you will thank yourself for tomorrow. Do something today that exhibits that you are full of self-love, and that you are ready to take over the world. Build yourself up in any way possible, and continue on your journey to becoming a whole person. Depend on yourself to make yourself happy. Fill your soul with goodness and joy.

Yes, it is possible.

Xo,

Lisa <3


 
 
 

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