a toxic heart.

I have been here more than I would like to admit. This is one of the hardest ideas to grasp. It almost always leads to heartbreak and constantly "starting over." You meet a special someone, and those blessed sparks fly. It must be "it," right? Well, not always. It would be an interesting world if everyone abided by an "if it feels good, go for it" approach to life. Saying this is your crutch, it is one of the hardest things to overcome, but where there is a will, there is a way.

This concept also has a lot to do with my oddball "toxic heart coach" name. I've been there in a fierce way. It is an issue that is important to me, and I can really relate to those who have allowed repeated toxic relationships into their lives, thus holding themselves back from their wildest dreams.

I have always found that when we are in a toxic state of mind, the partners we find in the midst of said toxicity are never what we hope for, nor deserve. Those "comforting" arms are what I like to call hugging each other's demons. Sometimes we learn it right away, sometimes it takes a couple of years, and sometimes we choose to stay even with every red flag in the book. I believe deep down, we always "know." The toxicity can be the way you feel about yourself, bad habits, living in the past, and so on.

The key is, to find YOU. When you do, you get closer to getting yourself to an incredible place where you are pursuing your goals and living your dreams. Get to a place where you are fully aware of your self-worth, and create a domino effect. It is important. A respectable human will roll out the red carpet for you in all of your glory. More positive relationships, please.

I like to get to the root, so you can live the life you were designed to live. In this case, the grass can be greener. Contact me for a free consultation if you would like me to help you along your journey. Guys and dolls welcome!

-Lisa